Before reading this, we suggest you to read “Fatima and the sexuality”. (2008.06.06)
Communication written by Esmeralda Rios, received on May 17, 2008
“My dear Yasmin on Earth, I am Lucifer, the prince increasingly black, a sparkling black, brighter than the brightest of the stars. My Esmeralda, I am here to talk to you about the code of men as well as of the code of God - my code. The code of God has only one item: Be. Through each being, human or not, in which I express myself, I am. I express myself. I vibrate. This is the code of God. In every moment, every occasion, every situation, the being, human or not, can only choose to express myself. When he expresses me, he is fulfilling the task for which he was created.
And when he decides not to express me, what happens? He learns what happens when he does not express - being no longer. This is the reality ever established between me and the Great Source. The old Universe of Shadow has got the mission of “being no longer”. It has succeeded incredibly well. Now what? Now, once the game is over, the human beings only have to choose to express me, feeling sure that, within myself, is already merged the old Source of the ceasing Universe of Shadow, the one that did not use to express itself, whose role as promoter of the other polarity, was “being no longer”; however, now, merged with myself, it is learning to express itself. Is it complicated? No, not really...You may ask what does this have to do with the code of sexuality. Do you want to tell me what you are feeling?
Esmeralda: If we decide to express the Source, at any time, we are expressing the energy of creation, the primary, the primordial Matrix Energy, and everything will change. And whether there is anything that has to express the source in its total dimension it is the sexual area.
Lucifer: All human areas have to express me, but, particularly this area is an essential one. Only accepting to express a couple will come to full union, cosmic merger. The energy of creation will acquire all its force when a couple/pair, carrying the masculine and feminine energies – no matter whether they are men or women - decide to express the Source. Does this mean that both need a ritual of secret votes, of new positions or of any initiation? Do not complicate matters, please. Let aside all the old concepts and paradigms. The Tantra is a great way of learning, but useless if you do not express the energy of the Source… In this moment, your little head is thinking in terms of sexual act and in all the differences that exist between men and women. And you wonder what is this for in the terms of the sexual act, is it not?
Esmeralda: No. I understand and realize that this decision will make all the difference, but I do not know how you are intending to transcend all those differences
Lucifer: So that the sexual experience may radically change on Earth, each member of the couple will have to decide to express the energy of the Source. Taking such decision they begin a deep process of transformation, and everything can happen in their lives, including at the level of the relationship, if they have one. If this relationship has the potential of expressing the divine energy, that is, the true love, it will progress and become stronger and it will be an authentic relationship, of true partaking and companionship. The sexual practice will cease for some time, what will cause the alteration of the so much commented libido. If the relationship has not this energy, but it has the potentiality of being able to come to express it, each of its component parts will begin a deep process of transformation, with various situations of learning, in which each one of them will have to make a choice: In the case they both decide to express the Source, the process will be identical to the previous one; on the contrary, they will part from each other and they will follow different ways. Everything not corresponding to the degree of vibration of the Source will be withdrawn, even if the other person wants to hold him back. Can you understand all I said thus far? … Have you any questions?
Esmeralda: No. Please, go on. If I have any doubt I will tell you.
Lucifer: Very well. This process is very simple, not complicated at all and it consists of an essential learning for the human beings and it must be done: God is simplicity, God is the supreme creation, and you, human beings, you partake this reality. Being part of the Source, you have to learn to express yourselves as divine beings, fabulously creative because you express me, extraordinarily simple because you express me. The complexity is a human creation. Everything is simple when you are connected with the Source. So, what is to be done? At an internalization moment, turn towards the Source and say: I accept to express you. In a posterior phase you will be capable to say, with all the intensity of your being: I express my superior condition. This superior condition corresponds to Me and the Mother - the Source. There is nothing beyond this. When you will do as I am suggesting, you will solve most of the problems in your lives because you will start acting according to the Source. In sexuality it will also be thus, as well as in everything else, by the way; but, in this case you will be expressing yourselves in a masculine or feminine condition, as the case may be.
When each human being will accept to express himself as divine energy, the second step must be to co-to create the balance of his polarities, so that the internal man/woman, potentially unbalanced, does not boycott the relationship and even less the sexual fusing. We are going to stop calling sex to the sexual practice; we will call it fusing, once in the language of the Spirit, only fusing exists. The term sex corresponds to coupling. It is neither good nor bad; it is a need of the human being. This is all. So, on balancing their polarities, the human beings will become complete and autonomous, and not wolves conditioning and submitting their partners to the laws of the pack, to the common way of living. What has guaranteed the survival of the human being till now, is presently the promoter of his disaster and his extinguishing, if he does not choose to express the Source. Therefore, I suggest: Do not “make sex” any more and choose to express the Source in every situation, mainly when you will have the chance to contact closely with another human being. And do co-create the balance of your polarities. … In this moment, in some cases, the libido has certainly already been inactivated. It will not happen to all of you, but it will happen to the majority of you. To some of you it will happen later, to others it will happen sooner, depending on your internal choices. … Therefore, what has to be done in this moment? It is necessary to co-create the cleanness of all the memories and conditionings concerning the sexual archetype.
Let us now speak of fusing. What does it mean? It means that somebody connects so strongly with another person, in an intimate moment, that they start melting the whole of their energies. Of course, this does not mean a mere vaginal penetration; it is much more than this. For the prepared couples - and they will be many throughout the time-, I recommend that, before initiating any sexual fusing, they prepare and they meditate a little. Keep silent. The first step to express the Source is to convoke it for the moment, accepting to express it. I leave to your criterion what to say in the circumstance. The moment is an intimate one and each couple will have to find its own form of expression. Have you something to say?
Esmeralda: Yes, I have. For some men and women this will be very complicated, as it implies concentration, silence and much dialogue between the partners. It is completely the inverse of the usual sexual expression. People have as paradigm of a good sexual relation the maximum of carnal pleasure, but it is obvious that things will start to be different. It will be the energy that will establish the motto..
Lucifer: You are a woman, and the feminine in its generality, understands this better. What you are saying is right. The ardour of passion will be replaced by the intensity of the vibration, what is something new for the majority of the human beings. It does not mean absence of pleasure, on the contrary, it is the pleasure spread all over the body. We have already talked about this: As the sexual fusing has to be carried out with the whole body, men and women will have to cease to function only with their genitals, preceded of simple mechanical and lascivious preliminaries. …
Let us make a pause. Later you will ask questions, and other entities will speak with you on this subject.
PAUSE
Esmeralda: How can we distinguish the union or sexual fusing to which you are referring from a mere sexual practice? Is it only the question of the energy, or the way the union occurs will also change?
Lucifer: I liked this question! At this moment, all the women who are reading this are thinking, in their inner-selves, very lowly: “Is it now that everything is changing and all my dreams are becoming true?” But men will start thinking: “What does all of this mean? And, if I am not able to do so?” The perpetual masculine doubt, the fear of failing! Let me give you an advice: Burn, inside yourself, everything you consider good in the sexual intercourse, all your hopes, all your desires and yearnings, all your experiences, either good or bad. Burn all of them! Anything that may grasp you to the old form will condition your expansion and capacity of experiencing. Everything! All the films of Hollywood, all your insecurities, all your fears, all your gasps, sighs and wills, all your projections will have to turn into combustible for a great furnace that will purify the humans. So that you are not involuntarily pushed into that pyre, together with your conditionings, do it voluntarily and get rid of your old being. This will be a period of remodelling not to be done all at one go. Then, when you will decide to be intimately with somebody whom you love very much, do think of what you have to offer. Do not wonder about what you are going to feel, cease to concern yourself about what you are supposed to live. You are just having an occasion to express your love. I suggest you - and this is not obligatory - that you start by making, together, an exercise for the union of your chakras. If your energies are in harmony, you will feel good, in state of love. Your union will increase. Then, when the right time will come, in the course of these exercises, extend the expression of your love to your physical body. Use it, fondling each other, without having in mind a necessity of sexual fusing. First know each other. The problem is that the human beings are so conditioned by the way they used to express their sexuality that anything that is different from that stereotype generates insecurity.
The majority of the human beings do not know how to act, in this situation. The women become reserved, the men reveal incapable to function. They look for books or other texts to learn what to do, where to put the hand or the tongue! But have you ever thought that it is really a matter of vibration? Have you ever noticed that when you open your hearts to each other, instead of being concerned about your performance or about what will happen afterwards, you happen to live a moment that is unique and of which each one is a creator? It is not a matter of manuals; it is a matter of learning for both of you! Either you open yourselves or you will feel blocked, it is simple. The discovery is up to you. When you feel that you want to be closer to another person, open yourself. Burn incense, listen to music, light candles or do nothing of this, just let the sun or the moon in. But dare to open yourself to the energy of the Source. There are no pretty or ugly, fat or thin bodies, there is an entrancing energy of love, pleasure and life - the primordial energy that will come down and radiate through the couple. What will happen later, will be up to you. The energy will guide your learning and discovery. Each partner should impose oneself the prohibition of penetration before feeling completely open. The man would this way learn to appease his desire; the woman would learn to trust and to expand. Esmeralda, as you have seen in your dream, each man is an agriculturist of a land that will only be sown when he will have learned to take care of it with love, putting the needs of the land before its man’s needs – completely vicious. Have you ever seen any agriculturist sowing the land, hastily plowing furrows in it, going away and coming back only some month later hoping to find something? An agriculturist has firstly to take care of the land. The objective is not only to sow it. It is to observe its state, to plough it, to water it, to give it nutrients so that it can make come out the seed. When the land is ready, it must be sown and the work will continue, until the seed emerges. The land, feeling to be loved, will exult and give to the agriculturist the best catch-crop of ever. The sexual fusing is like the relationship between the agriculturist and the land… I will say nothing else on this. Sananda will approach you about this subject and complete it. For now, it is all. Thank you, my darling.
PAUSE
Sananda - May I continue?
Esmeralda: Yes, you may, although I am feeling somewhat nauseated!
Sananda - the energy of my “Father” is different… and you notice it! Continuing to make the development of the parabola we were speaking about, I can tell you that, without this care, the land will not be truly a land and the agriculturist will never come up to himself. This does not have anything to do with “preliminaries”. What is their use for a couple that lives in permanent state of tension or discord, keeping hurts and bearing grudges, and complexes of fear: “I am not pretty, pleasant, attractive enough…”? If this happens it is because the person who is with that woman does not radiate love energy, thus deepening her insecurity. To be well with one’s body is an essential condition so that love can express through it. But this “well-being” does not imply to be conditioned by the stereotypes of beauty established by the society at the present time, like ropes around the necks of all the women. A beautiful body is not necessarily a lean, or thin or fat body; it is a body where somebody lives radiating love and respecting himself, the body being the expression of this respect. It is the role of each woman to find this balance. I am only speaking to the women, but I am also going to speak to the men. I suggest an immediate co-creation: “I co-create the balance of my body. My body is the expression of my deity, my sacred temple. I express myself through it in perfect harmony”. Many miracles will be performed and much people will give up diets to live in harmony with themselves, taking care of themselves in the best way.
The men can also express this paradigm and they will express it more and more so that they can understand how much a look or an unsuitable commentary can be demolishing for a woman. Reducing everything to the physical expression is to restrain deeply the human relationships, and, of course, the “sexual expression”. When a man feels: “I am not able to cope with this, I am not able to refrain, I am too much fast. I do not know what she likes, I do not know what to do…”, this corresponds to a macho man attitude – a disguised scarecrow of his dream. What else can be a macho man than an agriculturist disguised as a scarecrow? It is somebody that is running away from his essence, someone that has not yet looked at himself as agriculturist and continues considering himself only a sower; I mean a simple semen diffuser. To this man corresponds a woman that does not know how to love him simply because, for multiple reasons, she cannot communicate with him and tell him what she needs as land. It is also true that most of the land does not know what it needs - this is another one of the discoveries that you will have to make together.
My coming to the Earth has the target of bringing love, to clame the authority of my “Father” on this planet. As it already has been said, everything vicious will be revealed. Even in this area. Couples, accusing mutually will be no more of use. Choose to help each other. Do not avoid binding to one another, fearing to face the situation or being exposed. Try to love each other independently of the situation you are living. Many people do not understand what is happening, but I can assure you that as soon as I will set foot on the planet, everything will be sped up. Everything. I am coming to speak of love and there is no greater love proof than listening to the other one, opening one’s heart and allowing the energy to invade him. There is no made ways, there are discoveries to be made by both.